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Sunday, July 13, 2008

Sand, Surf and Sunburns


I took a family trip to the beach yesterday with my dad, sister-in-law and 4 of my nieces and nephews. We had a lovely time. We left my place at 8:15 am and drove in tandem to North Padre Island. Now mind you, my dad, who used to brag about driving 80-90 miles per hour now drives a "Flintstones" vehicle. I had to keep calling him to remind him to pedal faster in order to keep up with me. He accused me of driving faster than warp speed but I was only going 70ish.... I DID want to make it to the beach before the sun went down.

Once we finally arrived we drove in a panic to the welcome center so my slightly hysterical niece could use the bathroom. We then proceeded to haul two carloads of "stuff" down to the beach. My dad is the only man I know who keeps a cart in his trunk , which he filled with coolers, chairs, water, towels, toys and a first aid kit. He then tried to wheel it through 6 inches of soft, dry, white sand. It took a little bit of maneuvering but he managed to make it to our spot. (It took much longer and considerably more energy for him to wheel is uphill through the same dry sand, but it was fun to watch!)

Finally we sat down to enjoy the beach. The weather was perfect. The breeze was fantastic and the water was so amazingly inviting. We spent 4 hours frolicking. We collected shells, played in the sand and spent a lot of time in the water seeing how deep we could go. We relaxed to the sound of the crashing waves while the sun warmed us, and eventually turned us into giant lobsters......

I should have known better. Normally when I go to the beach I resemble a woman with extreme religious convictions. I practically wear a dress and a veil in an effort to hide every square inch of my delicate, dayglo skin from the harsh sun. Not just for the sake of modesty, but for the sake of practicality. I detest sunburns. My skin doesn't tan, it blisters and peels and then I am left whiter than I was before the horrific experience. But I wanted to swim and enjoy the ocean with my nieces and nephews, which is nearly impossible to do when fully clothed. So this time I threw caution to the wind. REALLY bad idea.

I should have stuck with my original "non-religious convictions" about beach attire. Despite the 50 SPF sunblock my back, shoulders and cleavage (!) are almost the same shade of deep red as my sofa. And worse, blisters are already forming -- that should make wearing a bra really fun this week. I was going to take a few of my vacation days and spend them at the beach but after surveying my damaged skin the thought of more time in the sun is unappealing. I don't really enjoy walking around as a giant, pink blister so I'll be avoiding the sun, at least until I forget the pain!

Today we're all tired and sore and in some pain but we did create a memory. And we all learned a valuable lesson the hard way. The sun is not a friend to those with dayglo skin. Time to visit the dermatologist.


Wednesday, July 2, 2008

BREAKING NEWS!

STRESSED BILLING MANAGER ACCEPTS BETTER OFFER

Here's the scoop. Last Friday I received a phone call from a friend. She had spoken to a doctor who was looking for a new Practice Administrator. She told him about me. He and I spoke on Friday night. His partner called me later on in the evening. We all agreed to meet at the Starbuck's on Blanco and 1604 on Saturday at 3:30 pm. I arrived at 3:15 pm. At 3:45 pm I still did not see the doctors. I paged them and discovered that there are 2 Starbuck's at Blanco and 1604. In that instant I discovered that it is possible to be lost even when it looks like you're in the right place....(I'm sure there's a spiritual analogy there but I'm too tired to delve into it!) Anyway, I drove to the correct Starbuck's and met the long suffering doctors.

We talked for 1 1/2 hours and discussed their practice style, software, staff and all of their expectations. Most encouraging to me was how comfortable we were together. Both are easy to talk to and friendly and have chosen to practice at a slower pace in order to offer their patients the best care. Also, the lead doctor is a man of deep faith. He leads ACTS retreats through his church, performs at least 2 medical mission trips a year and prioritizes his life in the following way:

  1. GOD

  2. Family

  3. Work

By Sunday afternoon I had a very nice offer including 4 WEEKS OF VACATION. Yes, you read that right 4 WEEKS OF VACATION!!!! Do you KNOW how happy that made me??? 4 WEEKS OF VACATION!!!! I would actually be able to visit Laurie in Europe and go on mission trips all in the same year!!! Happy, happy, happy!

Well, enough about my 4 WEEKS OF VACATION!!! The doctor asked me to pray about the offer and I told him I would do that and make a decision on Monday. By Monday morning I was a nervous wreck. The offer just seemed too go to be true and having been burned so much lately I could find NO peace. I got a pep talk from Laurie and then called the doctor to accept the position. Do you know what he said? He said, "Praise the Lord! I prayed about this and told God that it was all in his hands. I am the kind of person who wants the best for everyone so even though I want what is best for my practice, I wanted you to make the best decision for you." At that point I start crying. I'm slightly overwhelmed that someone who doesn't even know me would put my best interests above those of his own.

So yesterday I resigned. My boss told me that I would leave a huge hole...that I had built the business office from nothing and no one can replace me...that I was an investment...that she was sad. Then she offered my position and a much higher salary to another employee 5 minutes later. So much for being an irreplaceable investment! I don't blame her, my news was a huge shock and she has a business to run. I have no bitterness and no regrets and I will leave on good terms. I learned a lot and will miss many of my co-workers, but I have to admit I will not miss working in a closet and dodging vagrants and rats on the 2-block hike to my car!

My last day is July 17. Then I will be enjoying some of my favorite girlfriends for a weekend retreat. I plan to head to the beach or Laity Lodge for a few days the following week so I can chill out before beginning my new job on July 28.

Thanks to everyone who has prayed for me, offered advice or just listened to me whine. Hopefully I will get back to my old self once I begin my new job and have 4 WEEKS OF VACATION to look forward to!!!



Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Meme

Okay - here's the deal. I have no earthly idea what "meme" stands for but I know that I'm supposed to answer the following questions so it must have something to do with information technology..... I couldn't figure out how to copy the meme from Jenny's blog so I retyped it, which is why it looks different. AND, I didn't include the last question because I couldn't figure out how to tag anyone. I'm still technologically challenged!

FOUR JOBS I'VE HAD IN MY LIFE:
  1. Video Arcade Cashier
  2. Motocross Gate Attendant
  3. Teen Crisis Hotline Operator
  4. Medical Practice Administrator

FOUR MOVIES I'VE WATCHED MORE THAN ONCE:

  1. The Wedding Singer
  2. Braveheart
  3. Shawshank Redemption
  4. Waiting for Guffman

FOUR PLACES I HAVE LIVED:

  1. New Braunfels, TX
  2. Conroe, TX
  3. Live Oak, TX
  4. San Antonio, TX

FOUR PLACES I HAVE BEEN (I can only list four??):

  1. Central Europe - Czech Republic, Poland
  2. Ireland
  3. Greece
  4. Italy

FOUR PEOPLE WHO EMAIL ME REGULARLY:

  1. Mom
  2. Scott
  3. Steph
  4. Rhonda

FOUR OF MY FAVORITE FOODS:

  1. Chicken Scaloppine from Macaroni Grill
  2. Fresh crepes in France
  3. Gyros
  4. Anything cheesy - especially my mom's Macaroni and Cheese

FOUR PLACES I'D RATHER BE RIGHT NOW:

  1. Prague, Czech Republic
  2. Slovenia
  3. Italy
  4. Krakow, Poland

FOUR THINGS I'M LOOKING FORWARD TO THIS YEAR:

  1. New job on July 28
  2. My nephew's wedding on November 15
  3. Family trip to the beach on July 12
  4. A much needed vacation before I start my new job!

FOUR TV SHOWS I WATCH (I rarely watch TV, but when I do):

  1. American Idol
  2. Nightline
  3. What Not to Wear
  4. The Office